theCHILDisKING.com» boys need touches http://www.thechildisking.com a parenting blog Wed, 21 Apr 2010 16:54:05 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 Boys Need Touches Too http://www.thechildisking.com/raising-the-child/boys-need-touches-too http://www.thechildisking.com/raising-the-child/boys-need-touches-too#comments Fri, 30 May 2008 19:04:27 +0000 Footyman http://www.thechildisking.com/?p=5 boys need touches I believe this issue is getting better with time as newer generation parents are more well-informed about the effects of "touch therapy". Boys especially, were seldom offered physical displays of affection from their parents in earlier times.

It is important to note that a child who is never touched will likely feel ignored, unworthy and not loved.

Parents should thus bear in mind the importance of physical proximity with their child. Here are some ways of drawing close :

  • Stroking their hair
  • Patting
  • Little kisses on the foreheads/cheeks
  • Hugs
  • Holding Hands
  • Doing a nose-to-nose or forehead-to-forehead
  • Affirmation of the things they did well
  • Squeeze of their cheeks
  • Constant affirmation of your love for them

Reflect daily on how you have drawn close to your child for the day.

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